Guys who care

I asked a few guys to share their thoughts on purity – I told them they could either talk to the teen girls in their lives (friends, sisters, that kind of thing), or they could write as if they were writing to their future brides. Here are the hearts of some guys who care:

Curran

God wants us to stay sexually pure because He loves us. And we’re in this together. How about this? When you are tempted, think of me, think of the future we’ll have without regret. And when I’m tempted, I’ll think of you and what it will be like to share my life with you. That way neither one of us will have to feel alone at night regretting our past… and we’ll have an amazing future to look forward to.

Curran

Tyler
I cannot express how excited I am for you… and for us. I need you to know that I have been living my life with you in mind – every decision I make is a reflection of the man I hope to be for you. Now this is my responsibility and doesn’t necessarily concern you, except for one very important fact: you are worth it. I wouldn’t be so careful if I didn’t believe this with all of my heart. But here’s the catch, it is not enough for me alone to believe it, I need you to believe you are worth it. You are God’s beautiful daughter! He made you in His image! What a thought! I believe this strongly enough to stake my future on it, but that is nothing in comparison to what God has invested in you. I am so excited about you! Please, get excited with me. The stakes are high, but I promise it will be worth it and God will be smiling!
Yours forever,
Tyler
Ben

I am here and I am waiting. I am waiting for the girl that God has for me, the girl I’ll love for the rest of my life. I am waiting for you. Will you wait for me?

There are a lot of rough guys in this world who want to use up and spit out innocent girls. I pray with all of my heart that they won’t do that to you as well. Those kind of guys don’t care about your feelings as much as what they can get you to do with them. I am not like that. I am waiting for you because I want to love you for who you are. I want to see you the way God sees you: his beautiful creation. I want to really get to know you: your likes and dislikes; your favorite dessert; your hobbies; everything.

Ben

Jared

My girlfriend and I have dated for over a year. Our relationship grew out of an amazing friendship that took a long time to develop. Purity is something that is core to my heart, as well as hers.  It is something that was defined long before we ever dated. I want to encourage you to never settle for a guy who won’t fight for purity. When you find someone who will fight for purity, you will find someone who will truly fight for you.

Jared

Tony

Before God really caught hold of my life, I was making some bad choices. I let myself get caught up in pornography, and it really took me to dark places. God has changed my heart from the inside out. He has changed me through the things I’ve read in the Bible, and He has given me godly pure women as friends. They are beautiful, inside and out! I now attend the Honor Academy (part of Teen Mania), and I know that when it’s the right time to pursue someone, God will put her in my heart. So I want to say something to each young woman who reads this: stay strong, hold on to God’s truth and never give up! Even if you have made bad choices too, bring them to God and He can heal you. You are pure in him! And just like you are looking for pure godly men, pure godly men are looking for you!

Tony

Carlyle

If I could speak to you, my future bride, I would want you to know that I’m falling more and more in love with our God. By the time we meet each other, I pray that our love for the Lord will be what attracts us to one another. And I hope and pray that the deeper we fall in love with our Savior, the deeper we will fall in love with one another. I’m so excited to meet you!

Carlyle

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